She found completeness & wholeness first. Alone.
Within herself
She did not look to him to fill her voids
She filled them on her own, with love, kindness, understanding & healing
She did not rely on him to make her happy
When he arrived
He
For he was icing on her cake
Without him she was already experiencing sweetness
Baby boy just added more flavor
Her love for self prepared & equipped her to love him
Her love for self set the stage for their love
& their love was stronger because of her abiity to to choose her first. Before he existed.
She created her own happiness & was responsible for maintaining it.
Love yo’ self first.