I know I always talk about people using others to fill their voids of abandonment, rejection or loneliness but, what if you’re the one using people instead?
When you know there’s no future or you don’t care about him or you don’t like him but you still call , text or even deeper, you’re in a full blown relationship with him. Are you doing the very thing that would hurt you if the tables were turned?
As a single woman, it’s tempting to accept numbers from guys I know I’m not interested in so that I can have someone to talk to when I’m bored, to stroke my ego with compliments & attention or so I can feel special dressing up to go on dates but in the end is it worth it?
Am I being the void filler & tired of how the world treats people when I’m also one of those same people? Man or woman, this message is for us all. Who do you have in your life that you have no good intentions or real interest in?
It’s time to search within yourself for what you feel is missing & look to complete yourself not with other people but by healing & seeking completeness within self.